Spiderweb Obsidian Tumble Stone

Spiderweb Obsidian is an amazing tool when we need to process emotional complexity.  It is particularly helpful when we feel attached to someone that we need to be separated from.  It reminds us that love is never the problem, but love alone is not always enough.  After a break-up, it helps us to consciously uncouple and to stand alone again. If we have physically separated, but remain trauma-bonded to someone, Spiderweb Obsidian gives us the strength to gently break the energy cord so that it no longer drains and chains us.  It also reminds us of our other important connections with friends, family, and neighbors.  If we don’t feel connected enough, it pushes us to find new connections and strengthen existing ones.  If we worry that we’ve lost our chance, Spiderweb Obsidian reminds us that life often repeats itself.  If we want love, we will find love again.  Because negative patterns can also repeat, Spiderweb Obsidian teaches us that if we don’t want to keep experiencing heartache, we have to behave differently so that a new pattern can form.